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"One day when my children are grown enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, I will say to them:
The loved you enough to haberles asked where they went, with whom and what time would return.
The loved you enough to not have stayed silent and let them know, but not like that new friend that was not good company.
The loved you enough to make them pay for the goodies taken from magazines or supermarket retailing, and make them say to the owner: We want this yesterday and we pay.
The loved you enough to have been standing two hours, with you, while cleaning his room tarea que yo habría hecho en 15 minutos.
Los amé lo suficiente para dejarles ver además del amor que sentía por ustedes, la decepción y también las lágrimas en mis ojos.
Los amé lo suficiente para dejarlos asumir la responsabilidad de sus acciones, aún cuando las penalidades eran tan duras que me partían el corazón.
Y ante todo, los amé lo suficiente para decirles NO , cuando sabía que ustedes podrían odiarme por eso (y en algunos momentos sé que me odiaron) .
Ésas eran las batallas más difíciles de todas. Estoy contento, vencí... porque al final ustedes ganaron también!
Y cualquiera de These days, when my grandchildren are grown up enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, when they asked if their parents were ill, my children will say,
"Yes, our parents were bad. They were the parents more evil in the world ... The other kids ate candy for breakfast and we had to eat cereal, eggs and toast. The other kids were drinking sodas and eating potato chips and ice cream at lunch and we had to eat rice, meat, vegetables and fruits.
Mama and Papa had to know who our friends were and what we did with them.
insisted that we told you who you were going out, but linger just an hour or less. They always insisted us to tell him the truth and nothing but the truth.
And when we were teenagers, I do not know how to read us getting thought.
They would not let touch our friends that we left horn, had come down, touch the door and get to know them.
At age 12, all could come back late at night as we had to wait until 16 to do so, and those heavy raised as to whether the party had been good (just to see what state we were at the back)
Because of our parents, We lost vast experiences in adolescence.
None of us was involved in drug problems, theft, vandalism, violation of property, or were imprisoned for no crime.
WAS ALL THEIR FAULT! "
Now that we are adults, honest and polite, we are doing our best to be" bad parents , as were our parents. I BELIEVE THAT THIS IS ONE OF THE MALES IN THE WORLD TODAY:
NOT ENOUGH PARENTS BAD!
Those who already are parents, not blame, and those will be, that this will serve as a warning!
Dr. Carlos Hecktheuer, Psychiatrist
The loved you enough to haberles asked where they went, with whom and what time would return.
The loved you enough to not have stayed silent and let them know, but not like that new friend that was not good company.
The loved you enough to make them pay for the goodies taken from magazines or supermarket retailing, and make them say to the owner: We want this yesterday and we pay.
The loved you enough to have been standing two hours, with you, while cleaning his room tarea que yo habría hecho en 15 minutos.
Los amé lo suficiente para dejarles ver además del amor que sentía por ustedes, la decepción y también las lágrimas en mis ojos.
Los amé lo suficiente para dejarlos asumir la responsabilidad de sus acciones, aún cuando las penalidades eran tan duras que me partían el corazón.
Y ante todo, los amé lo suficiente para decirles NO , cuando sabía que ustedes podrían odiarme por eso (y en algunos momentos sé que me odiaron) .
Ésas eran las batallas más difíciles de todas. Estoy contento, vencí... porque al final ustedes ganaron también!
Y cualquiera de These days, when my grandchildren are grown up enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, when they asked if their parents were ill, my children will say,
"Yes, our parents were bad. They were the parents more evil in the world ... The other kids ate candy for breakfast and we had to eat cereal, eggs and toast. The other kids were drinking sodas and eating potato chips and ice cream at lunch and we had to eat rice, meat, vegetables and fruits.
Mama and Papa had to know who our friends were and what we did with them.
insisted that we told you who you were going out, but linger just an hour or less. They always insisted us to tell him the truth and nothing but the truth.
And when we were teenagers, I do not know how to read us getting thought.
They would not let touch our friends that we left horn, had come down, touch the door and get to know them.
At age 12, all could come back late at night as we had to wait until 16 to do so, and those heavy raised as to whether the party had been good (just to see what state we were at the back)
Because of our parents, We lost vast experiences in adolescence.
None of us was involved in drug problems, theft, vandalism, violation of property, or were imprisoned for no crime.
WAS ALL THEIR FAULT! "
Now that we are adults, honest and polite, we are doing our best to be" bad parents , as were our parents. I BELIEVE THAT THIS IS ONE OF THE MALES IN THE WORLD TODAY:
NOT ENOUGH PARENTS BAD!
Those who already are parents, not blame, and those will be, that this will serve as a warning!
Dr. Carlos Hecktheuer, Psychiatrist
